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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in Your Biggest Problem & Solution   
    Batch cooking healthy meals was the key for me! Also keeping a list until I got some momentum going helped.
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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in What are you most looking forward to this year?   
    The Edinburgh festival! I've got tickets booked for a play adaptation of a Terry Pratchett book, I'll see one of my friends who only comes here to perform once a year. I usually go to a couple of the free shows and meet a bunch of interesting people. It's a good time!
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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in Unforgivably Stupid   
    People who think absolutely everything is objective and they have the only correct opinion
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    perpetually got a reaction from Audra in "I Am So Unapologetically Myself"   
    If it occurs to you to say "I'm unapologetically me", someone has probably asked you to apologise for how you're behaving.
    "I'm sorry I made you feel that way, it wasn't my intention/I behaved terribly" isn't difficult to say unless you see it as humiliating. If you see it as humiliating, I don't wanna be around you because you don't care about my feelings.

    The exception to this for me is if people have shamed you for being somehow different and this is how you are reclaiming your right to express yourself.
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    perpetually got a reaction from mary in Relationship Advice   
    Yeah, I have learned this through being a people pleaser to the extent that I don't wanna upset my loved ones so I would rather suffer and not tell them they're making me suffer. And I'd always end up resenting them for not being able to somehow telepathically know what my distress was about -- deeply unfair on them. You live and learn, I guess.
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    perpetually got a reaction from Onision in Relationship Advice   
    Communication! Address issues early. Humans can't read minds. Having a problem and not sharing it just leads to resentment, in my experience.
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    perpetually got a reaction from K.C. in Your Biggest Problem & Solution   
    Batch cooking healthy meals was the key for me! Also keeping a list until I got some momentum going helped.
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    perpetually got a reaction from Audra in Your Bucket List   
    Death Cab are top of my wishlist, I'm so envious! One of my absolute favourite bands to this day - how are they live? I used to adore AFI and Coheed & Cambria too.
    Funny, I've seen maybe a third of those bands live too! Foo Fighters were almost better than their recordings 😅
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    perpetually got a reaction from Red Robert in Delete a Fictional Character From The World   
    My first thought was a asoaif character too (joffrey) but not because I think it'd make a difference to the conditions of the world. He's just a little snot and I wanna kick him in the shin. And I'm a pacifist.
    Really though, Bloodraven or Littlefinger. The first Aegon maybe. That'd be interesting.
    Really though, either Ross from Friends because I feel like the one time he made me laugh (Fajitas!) is outweighed by all the times I cringed hard enough to pull a facial muscle
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    perpetually got a reaction from Body Shamer in Your Super Power   
    Flying! I
    I ***, I'm going to cheat and say I'd like the ability to have whatever I wish for come true. Including flight!
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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in Celebrity You Wish Was Still Alive   
    Oh god I forgot Steve Irwin and heath ledger! Howww
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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in Your Bucket List   
    I saw MCR in the late 2000s for maybe £30. Black Parade era. I could never afford it now!
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    perpetually got a reaction from LadyHallows in Celebrity You Wish Was Still Alive   
    David Bowie

    Alan Hickman, Chester Bennington, Chris Cornell
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    perpetually got a reaction from Audra in 5 OF YOUR FAVORITE ONISION VIDEOS(UhOhBro etc)   
    I'm a banana
    I'm a banana
    I'm a banana
    I'm a banana (1 hour version)
    Death note parodies
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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in Your Super Power   
    Flying! I
    I ***, I'm going to cheat and say I'd like the ability to have whatever I wish for come true. Including flight!
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    perpetually got a reaction from K.C. in Using only food, where are you from?   
    Georgia?

    I can't send a picture but this is an easy one anyway:
    Haggis neeps and tatties! (Do not recommend the former, even half the people I know aren't fond of it)
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    I'm a banana
    I'm a banana
    I'm a banana
    I'm a banana (1 hour version)
    Death note parodies
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    perpetually got a reaction from Saoirse in Share A Thought   
    The hardest battle is between what you know and how you feel
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    perpetually got a reaction from Saoirse in If You Could Remove ONE Human Emotion   
    Envy. Not even close.
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    perpetually got a reaction from Body Shamer in A Haiku A Day   
    Oooh, this is a fun idea.

    Night walking; rose plucked
    My warm breath stirs each petal
    Maybe I'll bloom too
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    perpetually got a reaction from Body Shamer in Share A Thought   
    The hardest battle is between what you know and how you feel
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    perpetually got a reaction from Saoirse in Something You Love That Others Don't   
    Same and same! Also the smell of gasoline, old clothes, glue and campfire smoke for similar reasons. Well, gasoline just smells genuinely appealing to me. The others have nostalgia attached.
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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in Something You Love That Others Don't   
    I love corgis! Their stump legs look so silly, like they should have twice as much leg as they do.
    Seagulls are annoying and they often act like little winged Satans but I don't like how people treat them around here so my heart goes out to them despite their dubious personality. I do wish they'd shut the eff up in the mornings though.
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    perpetually got a reaction from ParadiseLost in What's keeping you up late?   
    Thank you! The friend is a domestic abuse victim who has just left his partner, so it's fairly tenuous, but I think I'm helping. We had a (turn of the millennium era) trance music dance party after the worst had passed.
    I slept in the next morning by accident.
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    perpetually got a reaction from Audra in What's keeping you up late?   
    Thank you! The friend is a domestic abuse victim who has just left his partner, so it's fairly tenuous, but I think I'm helping. We had a (turn of the millennium era) trance music dance party after the worst had passed.
    I slept in the next morning by accident.

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