I’m wanting to become the most attractive version of myself. What are tips for things you have done to make you more attractive or feel more attractive? At what age and stage did you feel the most attractive? I felt the most attractive being pregnant but I’m not getting pregnant again anytime soon. But I wanna feel beautiful again… any tips on looking better?

Attractiveness is subjective. As long as you're looking after yourself, maintain a good diet, exercise regularly, have good hygiene, the rest is all personal preference. I'd personally rather wear clothes and accessories I like than follow any particular popular fashion.

Put it this way, on your death bed will you be bothered about how attractive other people found you? Probably not. As long as you feel good, that's the most important thing.

If you are looking after yourself and you still don't feel beautiful, you're not surrounding yourself with enough good people to tell you that you're beautiful.

This is sad to admit, but I don’t think I’ve ever felt attractive. I’ve always dealt with insecurities but who doesn’t? One of my insecurities is my hair so getting a haircut or styling it a different way can help you feel better about yourself. I actually got a haircut today because it was getting long so I got it cut to my shoulders and I’ve gotten multiple compliments on it saying that it’s cute, even though I still don’t think it looks good but that made me feel better about it. Also adding more style can help too as long as you’re comfortable in the clothes you wear and style it the way you want to.

12 hours ago, K.C. said:

This is sad to admit, but I don’t think I’ve ever felt attractive. I’ve always dealt with insecurities but who doesn’t? One of my insecurities is my hair so getting a haircut or styling it a different way can help you feel better about yourself. I actually got a haircut today because it was getting long so I got it cut to my shoulders and I’ve gotten multiple compliments on it saying that it’s cute, even though I still don’t think it looks good but that made me feel better about it. Also adding more style can help too as long as you’re comfortable in the clothes you wear and style it the way you want to.

I also deal with really bad insecurity that I wish could be better. As far as style goes I can’t stop wearing all black! But it limits my style lol. I literally only feel comfortable in all black. I’m trying to get better about it. And I do need to change my hair, idk what to do with it yet. I have some side bangs going on rn. But idk if it actually compliments me the best. But I do wanna try a new hair style.

13 hours ago, ParadiseLost said:

Attractiveness is subjective. As long as you're looking after yourself, maintain a good diet, exercise regularly, have good hygiene, the rest is all personal preference. I'd personally rather wear clothes and accessories I like than follow any particular popular fashion.

I know attractiveness is subjective but I wanna try to look my absolute best you know? Also yea I really don’t receive compliments often. I used to receive them more and I generally felt better about myself. I think I’m isolated a bit right now. But thank you, everything you said was very kind.

Honestly, I think being the most attractive version of yourself is really just bettering yourself mentally and physically. Eat better, sleep better, think positive thoughts, keep your activity levels high, and wear whatever you feel the most comfortable in.

On 8/16/2025 at 5:43 PM, mary said:

I’m wanting to become the most attractive version of myself. What are tips for things you have done to make you more attractive or feel more attractive? At what age and stage did you feel the most attractive? I felt the most attractive being pregnant but I’m not getting pregnant again anytime soon. But I wanna feel beautiful again… any tips on looking better?

when I started fasting 7pm to 8am I noticed my face shape came back - no more double chin hinted - actual... face... like when I was in my 20s

4 hours ago, Onision said:

when I started fasting 7pm to 8am I noticed my face shape came back - no more double chin hinted - actual... face... like when I was in my 20s

I actually noticed the same thing! Also spearmint and green tea cuts water weight and bloating. I can tell in my face quickly if I have been making bad eating habits or if I haven't been hydrating. I have been pretty strict recently and I've been feeling pretty, wearing dresses and stuff helps too. I love feeling feminine, which is hard bc I am so tall lol.

1 hour ago, mary said:

Also spearmint and green tea cuts water weight and bloating

well that's lucky... I've been consuming green tea every day for weeks

1 hour ago, Onision said:

well that's lucky... I've been consuming green tea every day for weeks

Try spearmint, it’s supposed to help hormones too. Idk if for men certain teas work better for that kinda stuff but I start my morning with green tea, do spearmint in the afternoon, and like any calming tea for night. I notice a big difference with the helps of tea but I also drink like a ton of tea.

I've heard getting plenty of healthy amounts of vitamin c, fibre and collagen in your diet is good.

Update on Fasting, now 22lbs lighter than when I started and again, face shape is almost or maybe even is, the best it has ever been.

A huge fear of mine has always been the double chin --- never want one of those --- now my neck is tight and I'm like "why do most people get surgery when they could just fast for a small amount of awake hours a day?"

4 hours ago, Onision said:

Update on Fasting, now 22lbs lighter than when I started and again, face shape is almost or maybe even is, the best it has ever been.

A huge fear of mine has always been the double chin --- never want one of those --- now my neck is tight and I'm like "why do most people get surgery when they could just fast for a small amount of awake hours a day?"

You should show update pics

There are.......

On 10/6/2025 at 6:42 PM, Onision said:

There are.......

Just saw! And congratulations you look amazing

On 10/8/2025 at 7:26 AM, mary said:

Just saw! And congratulations you look amazing

Thanks!